Lies, pt. 1

This message is about lies we tell each other all the time. Later on I will teach on clients lying when doing spiritual work!

Sometimes just in the course of life, because I read tarot every single day, there are times when one certain card pops up in almost every other spread.

Now in keeping with me getting more involved on the internet, I am starting to communicate more with my friends at Facebook. We have some of the best talks. This past week someone posted this as their status update, which made me think about how The Tower has been showing up a lot lately:

"Some questions a woman ask you will hurt her and its best at times not to be truthfull."

This generated a lot of conversation and of course I thought I would share my take. Very few people came back to that, agreeing with what the man originally said. This is because the way the statement was written made it to appear that he was saying that, sometime it is best to tell a lie. I know men who believe this. I know a man who believes this, that you should tell a lie if it will save your relationship. There is a woman author who wrote a whole book about how you should lie to keep the relationship going.

Let me tell you something. I specialize in love problems, or romantic relationship problems specifically. I have a large client base where I live that was gotten strictly from word of mouth. I now also have people calling me or now emailing and Skype calling me for work. And aside from people who want to learn how to "cast spells", most of them have to do with love and, directly dealing with "I think I am being lied to."

Most people want the truth told to them. They are not thinking about the pain it could cause to hear that truth. But the reality is, that when you deal honestly with a person, even when the honesty hurts, only then can you have a genuine relationship. In fact, the prison you are setting for yourself when you lie is such a poisonous place always hoping that the truth will not come out, you tell more lies to cover the first one and the tower you are building of lies will eventually eat away at your life and at your soul. You may even explode or implode, mentally, spiritually or emotionally.

To avoid a lie you can simply be the adult and say, I really don't want to answer that question, or don't want to discuss that. The person on the receiving end can also be an adult and accept that the person wishes for privacy. If you feel that you have to lie, usually for fear... what is it that you fear happening? Why would you share your life with someone that you not only fear but also do not trust to understand where you are coming from.

A true friend will not lie to you, and on the opposite, a true friend will not require you to do damage to your soul by lying to them. This is a sort of manipulation that is not "friendly" at all. In a romance relationship, it is sometimes better to nip it in the bud if it is something that has to be lied about.

The one who is truly for you, will be there through the good and the bad. So set yourself free and lose the lies, or the liers!

And here is a quote I found on the internet that you can hang on to and ponder, about honest interactions with people:

"…Can't you see that until someone is honest we get nothing clear. The good work is obscured, hidden in the bad."

And finally, as many of my clients happen to be women, I want to share something that the same man posted, this time is about what men really should be doing with the women in their lives.

"To my brothers I want you to know that no matter how many romantic relationships you currently have, build and strengthen everyone involved in them. Not only the women but their children, encourage them in every positive vibration you can, elevate yourself by elevating them. Learn and teach them the wisdom and knowledge you have obtained in life. Draw them closer to the Neterus, Orishas, our ancestors, and God."

Because uplifting one another in love is what this game is really all about. If you are not being build and strengthen, what are you doing in it?

Bless you all my beloved and beautiful shining stars. Remember, you can contact me by email at revtinamystic@gmail.com if you need anything at all. Lies usually lead people to attempt revenge work, but I hope and pray that I can help you find better, nicer relationships instead or sweeten the one you already have. Because positive situations more likely affirm you and bless you with a joy filled life. Love to you!